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Originally posted by OurTulsa
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Originally posted by pfox
My wife had the highly astute observation, I think, that in such situations in Tulsa, Oklahoma, people don't look at a family walking down the street with bags of groceries and think "look at those folks, aren't they hip and urban?". They look at them and think "they must be poor, otherwise they would have driven to the store."
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Next time you guys walk down there let me know ahead of time and my gals and I will plan a walk to Blockbuster. We do often encounter similar reactions.
We can plan a "Family Walk on Brookside day"; create some critical pedestrian mass (caveat being that you can't drive to Brookside, park, get out and walk). We'll dress fairly fashionably and make sure that we are carting some sort of baggage.
I witnessed a pedestrian Tulsa this past weekend during the art fair on Brookside. It was nice to walk among others on sidewalks that are usually lonely.
Kiah, I've seen you walking over to the downtown Bus Station before and almost pulled in to offer you a ride and then thought against that idea to allow you to be the shining example that you are.
My wife and I recently moved to Tulsa from Austin. We live in the Swan Lake neighborhood and enjoy walking to Utica Square and Cherry St for shopping, eating, and entertainment. We usually have our child with us in a stroller, and we too have noted the feeling of pity from those in cars who seem to think "Poor family...too bad they can't afford a car". Truth is, I am sitting there thinking "Poor yuppie...too bad he has to fill the tank of that huge SUV every few days".
My biggest complaint is the drivers who like to yell or intimidate you as you walk. I think these are mostly overpriveledged/undereducated teens looking for a quick laugh as they drive daddy's car down 21st, but maybe it is just Tulsa's lack of public knowledge and perception on pedestrians? Should some sort of campaign be launched to educate people? (ie when you are driving 45 mph down a four lane road with no other vehicles next to you and you approach 2 pedestrians pushing a baby carriage, you should change lanes to give the pedetrian more "space" rather than hang your middle finger out the window and yell a profanity). This could be incorporated into Driver's Safety courses you take before you get your license and re-inforced at defensive driving courses...perhaps even a public awareness commercial or two, given they are not overly cheesy. Is there a number I can call to report drive by hecklers?
Anyway, I am rambling on now, I just found it interesting that others have had the same experiences in what I consider the most "walkable" parts of Tulsa.