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Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 11, 2008, 11:50:19 AM
Very interesting article from News channel 6, Tulsa. Lori Albright did an excellent job.
http://cfcoklahoma.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=215%3Ateen-feels-snared-in-sex-offender-law-ricky&Itemid=1
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: zstyles on November 11, 2008, 01:12:39 PM
I guess we are suppose to feel sorry for him??
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Wilbur on November 11, 2008, 01:23:23 PM
Bummer for him and he won't be the first.  It's his responsibility to check.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: sgrizzle on November 11, 2008, 01:31:31 PM
This is why I believe the sex offender registry has issues. While it was his fault, it was not a purposeful violation and his chance of repeat offense are very low.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: dbacks fan on November 11, 2008, 01:41:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by zstyles

I guess we are suppose to feel sorry for him??



He made a mistake. From the article it seems that he wasn't out trolling for 13 year olds. Now he branded for life. Yes I feel bad for him.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 11, 2008, 03:31:10 PM
It's my understanding that Fox here in Tulsa is going to do a follow up on this story called "Age of Consent" sometime towards the end of the month.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: cannon_fodder on November 11, 2008, 03:44:40 PM
The sex offender registry is dangerously worthless.  A man on the list could be a drunk who was peeing in an alley behind a bar - or someone who exposed himself to an 8 year old.  I see a difference.

And yes, it is the kids job to check.  But have you ever ID'd someone you had sex with?  If I was in a 21 and over bar I would assume the person was 21.  If they had an ID that could fool the bartender/bouncer, certainly I could not be faulted for buying it even IF I ID'd her.  Same basic instance here - she was in a 16+ club.  She fooled the club and thus fooled him.

But, as written, it is a strict liability rule.  It does not matter if she presented a fake birth certificate, driver's license, and a voter registration card.  No matter how well he checked, he is still guilty.  So the "it's his job to check" rule simply does not apply.

There is a Jane Doe who has slept with THREE older men (that we know of) and in each instance they have been convicted.  She used a fake ID on dates with them to Casinos, bars, and the like.  Turns out she was 17, too young in some states to have sex with a 25+ year old. I wish I had the link, but I no longer do.

In any event, it is hard to blame a 16 year old for having sex with someone who looks to be a 16 year old and has ancillary verification as well as an admitted lie both backing up that claim.  We can't tell how old Chinese gymnasts are, but this boy is supposed to be able to tell the difference?

Go ahead and preach to me that he doesn't have to have sex with anyone and on and on.  But the majority of people will have sex with someone at some point in their life with only that persons word, or an assumption as to their age.  To be branded a child rapist for the rest of your life for such an act is against the intent of the law.  The situation should be looked at in the totality of circumstances.

And what punishment did the girl get for sneaking into a club, lying about her age, and seducing this young man?

Oh right... young girls are stupid and have no control over themselves.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 11, 2008, 04:13:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by cannon_fodder

The sex offender registry is dangerously worthless.  A man on the list could be a drunk who was peeing in an alley behind a bar - or someone who exposed himself to an 8 year old.  I see a difference.

And yes, it is the kids job to check.  But have you ever ID'd someone you had sex with?  If I was in a 21 and over bar I would assume the person was 21.  If they had an ID that could fool the bartender/bouncer, certainly I could not be faulted for buying it even IF I ID'd her.  Same basic instance here - she was in a 16+ club.  She fooled the club and thus fooled him.

But, as written, it is a strict liability rule.  It does not matter if she presented a fake birth certificate, driver's license, and a voter registration card.  No matter how well he checked, he is still guilty.  So the "it's his job to check" rule simply does not apply.

There is a Jane Doe who has slept with THREE older men (that we know of) and in each instance they have been convicted.  She used a fake ID on dates with them to Casinos, bars, and the like.  Turns out she was 17, too young in some states to have sex with a 25+ year old. I wish I had the link, but I no longer do.

In any event, it is hard to blame a 16 year old for having sex with someone who looks to be a 16 year old and has ancillary verification as well as an admitted lie both backing up that claim.  We can't tell how old Chinese gymnasts are, but this boy is supposed to be able to tell the difference?

Go ahead and preach to me that he doesn't have to have sex with anyone and on and on.  But the majority of people will have sex with someone at some point in their life with only that persons word, or an assumption as to their age.  To be branded a child rapist for the rest of your life for such an act is against the intent of the law.  The situation should be looked at in the totality of circumstances.

And what punishment did the girl get for sneaking into a club, lying about her age, and seducing this young man?

Oh right... young girls are stupid and have no control over themselves.



I remember that situation. The girl posed as a 19 year old divorcée and ended up sending 3 men to prison and when they get out they will have to register FOR LIFE. This world has gone insane.

The entertainment news media and politicians for ratings and votes have spread myths, lies and hysteria. In return they have laws on the books that actually endanger children and the whole of society.

Randy Lopp, treatment subcommittee chairman of the Oklahoma Sex Offender Management Team sais,â€?Most people who know anything about this are frustrated. It is just not helpful â€" the laws as they are now,â€?

�I think if the general public understood the research, they would be willing to back the legislators to change the laws to make more sense and to protect children, because the laws as they are written are NOT protecting children,� he said. “They are doing more harm than good.�

Oklahoma’s law is having an adverse effect and needs further changes.

�The least number of people should be in the worst tier, but the most number of people are going to be in the worst tier under the new law,� Sgt Stansill, Tulsa Police Department.

The loss in funding is part of the reason the state has moved to comply with the federal law, Another reason is consistency.

The residency debate: Lopp said he doesn’t believe that the offense-based assessment is the the best way to categorize offenders. He thinks a tiered system is a step in the right direction but that it should be based on the RISK OF THE INDIVIDUAL.

Some states have REFUSED federal funds so they can continue to develop risk-based assessments, he said.

A risk-based assessment could then correspond with the residency restrictions, which have created headaches for law enforcement agencies across the country.

What will it cost Oklahomians to comply with the AWA??

An example of what a state would have spent and received Prior to the cuts:
States stand to lose 10 percent of Byrne Grant money if they do NOT implement SORNA.

Oklahoma Cost of Implementing SORNA ……..$ 5,867,138
Oklahoma Byrne Money 2006……………………………….$2,790,472
Oklahoma 10 percent of Byrne money……………………..$279,047

Oklahoma 67% Byrne cut leaves 33% or…………..$92,085

On December 27 President Bush signed the 2008 Omnibus Appropriations Bill, a $555 billion domestic spending package that included short-term funding for US troops and an estimated $10 billion in pork-barrel projects. The raft of earmarks prompted Bush to say he was “disappointed� by Congress’s inability to “rein in government spending.�

But the bill did include major funding cuts, including, notably, a 67 percent reduction in appropriations (from $520 million to $170 million) for the Byrne Memorial Justice Assistance Grant (JAG) program. According to the Justice Department, the program “allows states and local governments to support a broad range of activities to prevent and control crime and to improve the criminal justice system.�

How will this cut affect states’ and municipalities’ ability to protect public safety? That’s a supremely wonky (and supremely politicized) questionâ€"but it’s a good one, I think.

Walter Phillips Jr., chairman of the Pennsylvania Commission on Crime and Delinquency, offered a tentative answer today. Pennsylvania received $11.7 million in Byrne JAG funds in 2007; the two-thirds reduction for 2008 drops that number to $3.9 million. “Let there be no mistake,� Phillips warned, “this cut in federal funding will hamper justice improvements and innovations which ultimately help to protect our citizens.�

Wisconsin, too, has weighed in. The state’s Office of Justice Assistance (which is charged with disbursing federal justice and homeland security grant funds) says it uses Byrne JAG funds to “support the operations of multi-jurisdictional drug task forces, prosecutors, help crime victims and reduce racial disparities in Wisconsin’s justice system�; it is facing a $4.1 million cut, from $6.48 million to $2.37 million. David Steingraber, who directs Wisconsin’s Office of Justice Assistance and serves as president of the National Criminal Justice Association, said recently that “communities everywhere� will suffer from the cuts. “Congress has just made the job of every police officer in this country more difficult,� he adds.
http://cfcoklahoma.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=155:federal-domestic-spending-bill-cuts-crime-funding-program-by-67-percent-i&catid=38:news-articles&Itemid=80
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 11, 2008, 04:21:22 PM
Bottom line is this. In order to save $92,085, Oklahoma will have to spend  ..$ 5,867,138.

That's not counting, As evidenced by these summaries, states can expect to incur significant costs as they attempt to comply with
SORNA. States should consider all possible areas in which increased expenditures will occur.
• New personnel
• Software, including installation and maintenance
• Additional jail and prison space
• Court and administrative costs
• Law enforcement costs
• Legislative costs related to adopting, and crafting state law.

Ohio determined that the cost of implementing new software to create a registry would approach a half million
dollars in the first year.2 The total estimated cost for complying with SORNA exceeds the Byrne funds Ohio would
lose if it did not comply.
• Installing and implementing software alone would cost $475,000 in the first year. The software would then cost
$85,000 annually thereafter for maintenance.
• Certification of treatment programs based on new standards and providing a description of a person on the registry to
the state’s Bureau of Criminal Identification and Investigation would cost another $100,000 annually.
• Ohio also lists other factors that would increase the cost of implementing SORNA, including salaries and benefits for
new personnel, new court and administration costs, and costs to counties and municipalities. These costs are in
addition to the $475,000 needed for software, but have not yet been quantified by the state.
• If Ohio chose not to implement SORNA, the state would lose approximately $622,000 annually from its Byrne
funds. However, the total estimated cost of software, certification of treatment programs, salaries, and benefits for
new personnel would exceed the lost Byrne funds.
Virginia determined that the first year of compliance with the registry aspect of SORNA would cost more than $12
million.3
• The first year of implementing SORNA would cost the Commonwealth of Virginia $12,497,000.
• The yearly annual cost of SORNA would be $8,887,000. Adjusted with a 3.5 percent yearly inflation rate,4 Virginia
would be paying more than $10 million by 2014.
• If Virginia chose to comply with SORNA, the state would spend $12,097,000 more than it would if it chose not to
implement SORNA and forfeit 10 percent of its yearly Byrne grant, a loss totaling approximately $400,000
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: patric on November 12, 2008, 01:15:25 PM
quote:
Originally posted by zstyles

I guess we are suppose to feel sorry for him??



Please restrain your compassion... [B)]

It's a sure sign of a broken system when the parties involved meet and settle their differences, yet the local DA decides to use it to advance his career.
I doubt this kid will ever trust a cop again, either.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 12, 2008, 02:49:45 PM
quote:
Originally posted by patric

quote:
Originally posted by zstyles

I guess we are suppose to feel sorry for him??



Please restrain your compassion... [B)]

It's a sure sign of a broken system when the parties involved meet and settle their differences, yet the local DA decides to use it to advance his career.
I doubt this kid will ever trust a cop again, either.



Actually Ricky's record has been expunged in Iowa. There is NO RECORD whatsoever.

How ever Oklahoma has him on Tier III predator status for the rest of his life.  
This is suppose to be America, the land of second chances. And Oklahoma is suppose to be the center of the BIBLE belt. What a joke! Where is the Christian mercy and grace at. Our laws ought be compassionate but they are not. HYPOCRITES!!
www.cfcoklahoma.org
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Wilbur on November 12, 2008, 05:40:00 PM
Your complaints need to go to your state representatives, but imagine the problems of trying to put exceptions into the law.

1.  I swear I thought she was 18!

2.  She told me she was 18!

3.  I'm only 19 and she told me she was over age!

What exceptions work for one person must work for everyone.

While it's a bummer for that dude, he was bangin' a 13-year old!  Come on.  Put yourself in her parent's place.  I doubt any of you dads would be saying 'well, my daughter said she was 18.'
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: swake on November 12, 2008, 06:43:07 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

Your complaints need to go to your state representatives, but imagine the problems of trying to put exceptions into the law.

1.  I swear I thought she was 18!

2.  She told me she was 18!

3.  I'm only 19 and she told me she was over age!

What exceptions work for one person must work for everyone.

While it's a bummer for that dude, he was bangin' a 13-year old!  Come on.  Put yourself in her parent's place.  I doubt any of you dads would be saying 'well, my daughter said she was 18.'



you need to reread the article. He was 16 when it happened and he met her in a club that you had to be 16 to enter. He says she claimed she was 16.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Wilbur on November 13, 2008, 06:19:28 AM
quote:
Originally posted by swake

quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

Your complaints need to go to your state representatives, but imagine the problems of trying to put exceptions into the law.

1.  I swear I thought she was 18!

2.  She told me she was 18!

3.  I'm only 19 and she told me she was over age!

What exceptions work for one person must work for everyone.

While it's a bummer for that dude, he was bangin' a 13-year old!  Come on.  Put yourself in her parent's place.  I doubt any of you dads would be saying 'well, my daughter said she was 18.'



you need to reread the article. He was 16 when it happened and he met her in a club that you had to be 16 to enter. He says she claimed she was 16.


Okay, whatever.

1.  I swear I thought she was (insert age here).

2.  She told me she was (Insert age here).

3.  I'm only (Insert age here) and she told me she was over age!

4.  I was in a (insert age here)-year old club so she should have been (insert age here).

It doesn't matter.  SHE WAS 13!
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: TeeDub on November 13, 2008, 11:19:25 AM

That is too bad that the teen feels snared.

Maybe he should have invested in a better attorney.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: JessnT on November 13, 2008, 11:32:44 AM
quote:
Originally posted by patric

quote:
Originally posted by zstyles

I guess we are suppose to feel sorry for him??



Please restrain your compassion... [B)]

It's a sure sign of a broken system when the parties involved meet and settle their differences, yet the local DA decides to use it to advance his career.
I doubt this kid will ever trust a cop again, either.



I totally agree with you.
Both children are going to be messed up possibly for life!  We try so hard to teach them to be careful, warn them about the tricks girls will play on guys and vice versa.  Now we have to tell our children if they're going to insist upon pre-marital sex, they must make a quick run to the nearest police division and ask someone to validate a driver's license??
Sad for both families.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: sgrizzle on November 13, 2008, 01:11:45 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

Your complaints need to go to your state representatives, but imagine the problems of trying to put exceptions into the law.

1.  I swear I thought she was 18!

2.  She told me she was 18!

3.  I'm only 19 and she told me she was over age!

What exceptions work for one person must work for everyone.

While it's a bummer for that dude, he was bangin' a 13-year old!  Come on.  Put yourself in her parent's place.  I doubt any of you dads would be saying 'well, my daughter said she was 18.'



Her parents didn't have as much of a problem with it as you do.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 13, 2008, 04:34:16 PM
I believe the real problem here is painting everyone with the pedophile/predator brush as these laws do. Yes, Ricky was 16, the girl lied and was in an establishment that was for 16 to 20 year olds. Both were wrong but a life time sentence of registering is totally uncalled for. We need to revamp these laws by writing to our state law makers and ask them to make sense out of the mess that they have created. The laws on the books actually endanger the very children they were suppose to protect. The laws, to put it mildly are INSANE.
www.cfcoklahoma.org
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 13, 2008, 04:37:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by TeeDub


That is too bad that the teen feels snared.

Maybe he should have invested in a better attorney.



His mother, Mary went totally blind two weeks prior to his arrest. They had no money for an attorney. His public defender was insistent on Ricky taking a plea. What kind of choice is that!!
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: TeeDub on November 14, 2008, 11:00:13 AM
quote:
Originally posted by MSLGWCEO



His mother, Mary went totally blind two weeks prior to his arrest. They had no money for an attorney. His public defender was insistent on Ricky taking a plea. What kind of choice is that!!




I guess having your mother go blind still isn't an excuse to sneak off and start having sex with 13 year olds.  

The good thing is he will have plenty of years to wonder if it was really worth it.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 14, 2008, 04:47:52 PM
quote:
Originally posted by TeeDub

quote:
Originally posted by MSLGWCEO



His mother, Mary went totally blind two weeks prior to his arrest. They had no money for an attorney. His public defender was insistent on Ricky taking a plea. What kind of choice is that!!




I guess having your mother go blind still isn't an excuse to sneak off and start having sex with 13 year olds.  

The good thing is he will have plenty of years to wonder if it was really worth it.



No one said that was an excuse. His record has been expunged, which means there is no record. But Oklahoma has him on TIER III as an aggravated sex offender for consensual sex. The girl admittedly lied concerning her age, and she was in an establishment where the entrance minimum was 16. Good grief. Can't you read? Why do you inject such nonsense??
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: nathanm on November 14, 2008, 05:29:29 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MSLGWCEO

Can't you read? Why do you inject such nonsense??


There are people who are so squicked by kids having sex that they can't think straight. Maybe it's because they think there's a child molester hiding behind every bush.

Pretty much the same thing as parents who refuse to let their kids go anywhere alone. They see grave danger where statistically there is little.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: TeeDub on November 14, 2008, 10:17:39 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MSLGWCEO

Can't you read? Why do you inject such nonsense??



Apparently you confuse my complete and total lack of sympathy for nonsense.  

The fact is he had sex with a 13 year old and her parents had enough of a problem with it to pursue charges with the DA.  (Check number one, did the family care enough to do something.) Then, as another professional with no sympathy, the DA decided to pursue charges.  (Check number two as to whether this should have proceeded.)  As far as I am concerned, due diligence was followed and he deserves what he got.   Whether or not the criminal feels that the punishment was deserved is moot.

You are right in your assumption that I don't have a daughter, but I do have a son.  I hope I can raise him better than to sleep with a 13 year old.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: nathanm on November 14, 2008, 10:22:01 PM
quote:
Originally posted by TeeDub


You are right in your assumption that I don't have a daughter, but I do have a son.  I hope I can raise him better than to sleep with a 13 year old.


I hope nobody ever lies to him about their age.

(And you apparently can't read)

quote:

Ricky's mother, who has recently gone blind, met with the girl's parents.
"They said, look, we know she lied, we don't want to press charges, we just want Ricky to say away from her and I said okay," said Ricky's mom, Mary.

Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: JessnT on November 14, 2008, 10:53:40 PM
quote:




You are right in your assumption that I don't have a daughter, but I do have a son.  I hope I can raise him better than to sleep with a 13 year old.




You better do more than hope!  You best find an expert to teach him how to identify a manipulative underage female, if he comes across one, or tell him to do like I mentioned earlier, have a cop run her license to see if she's who she says she is!  The issue is that the boy had no clue the girl was 13!!  That is exactly what your son might encounter.  If you think otherwise, I'd say you are living in a bubble.  I have a son as well and I have learned a valuable lesson from this situation.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 15, 2008, 09:51:47 AM

There are people who are so squicked by kids having sex that they can't think straight. Maybe it's because they think there's a child molester hiding behind every bush.

Pretty much the same thing as parents who refuse to let their kids go anywhere alone. They see grave danger where statistically there is little.
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The truth of the matter is, that 98% of all sex offenses are committed by family members and friends of the family. The chances of your child being molested by someone down the street are very remote. but the chance of them being molested by a family member or someone known by the family are great.
Prevention through education is the real KEY! Good touch bad touch can go a long ways in preventing child sexual abuse.
Here is an article entitled "Incest - A Family Tragedy. Listen to the Blogtalkradio interview with Edward Blackhoff who filmed the documentary which won 12 prestegious awards.
http://cfcoklahoma.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=80:incest-a-family-tragedy&catid=38:news-articles&Itemid=80
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 15, 2008, 11:23:32 AM
For those who will, please sign Ricky's petition

http://rickyslife.com/

I know Mary and Ricky personally. She being blind is raising two children on $550.00 a month and will soon have to move as they cannot even pay the rent. If you feel led, please donate at the site
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: sauerkraut on November 15, 2008, 01:39:46 PM
As was mentioned in some of the above posts, going "potty" in a back alleyway can get you hard time and a sex offender rap. The laws go overboard in many cases. Columbus, Ohio changed the law 10 years ago so someone using a alley as a potty won't get a sex offender rap, but in many other places it still is a sex offender rap. It's totally nuts. As per this story a 13 year old girl normally does look much younger than someone 16 or 17. I wonder if the boy really believed she was 16.  I think alot of guns in school laws go overboard too, kids who point a finger as a gun for a joke get kicked out of school. Long ago when I was in 2nd grade boys took their dads hunting rifles to school to use in show & tell. The gun sat on the coat rack all day no big deal. Today you could not do that.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Wilbur on November 15, 2008, 03:17:31 PM
quote:
Originally posted by sauerkraut

As was mentioned in some of the above posts, going "potty" in a back alleyway can get you hard time and a sex offender rap. The laws go overboard in many cases. Columbus, Ohio changed the law 10 years ago so someone using a alley as a potty won't get a sex offender rap, but in many other places it still is a sex offender rap. It's totally nuts. As per this story a 13 year old girl normally does look much younger than someone 16 or 17. I wonder if the boy really believed she was 16.  I think alot of guns in school laws go overboard too, kids who point a finger as a gun for a joke get kicked out of school. Long ago when I was in 2nd grade boys took their dads hunting rifles to school to use in show & tell. The gun sat on the coat rack all day no big deal. Today you could not do that.


"Going potty" in a back ally is a misdemeanor crime at both the state level and local level:

Tulsa ordinance Title 27 Section 500
State Statute Title 21 Chapter 2 Section 22

neither of which are on the list of crimes required to register as a sex offender.

In Tulsa, you are normally issued a citation with a mandatory court date, which usually results in a fine.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: nathanm on November 15, 2008, 04:46:26 PM
quote:
Originally posted by sauerkraut

As per this story a 13 year old girl normally does look much younger than someone 16 or 17.


Usually, but by no means always. In school I personally knew more than one 13 year old who looked 16 and later more than one 16 year old that looked 13. (I also knew a couple of 17 year olds that could have passed for 21 easily)
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Jason on November 15, 2008, 06:50:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by TeeDub

quote:
Originally posted by MSLGWCEO

Can't you read? Why do you inject such nonsense??



Apparently you confuse my complete and total lack of sympathy for nonsense.  

The fact is he had sex with a 13 year old and her parents had enough of a problem with it to pursue charges with the DA.  (Check number one, did the family care enough to do something.) Then, as another professional with no sympathy, the DA decided to pursue charges.  (Check number two as to whether this should have proceeded.)  As far as I am concerned, due diligence was followed and he deserves what he got.   Whether or not the criminal feels that the punishment was deserved is moot.

You are right in your assumption that I don't have a daughter, but I do have a son.  I hope I can raise him better than to sleep with a 13 year old.


You are a moron.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: TeeDub on November 15, 2008, 07:36:15 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Jason


You are a moron.



And that is the beautiful thing about the USA.  We are all entitled to our opinions.  


"Ricky was informed that the laws in Iowa had just changed and that the plea deal would include the requirement that he be registered as a sex offender for a period of 10 years.  He wept at this devastating news but decided to take the plea deal anyway to avoid the possibility of a long prison term."
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 17, 2008, 09:30:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by JessnT

quote:




You are right in your assumption that I don't have a daughter, but I do have a son.  I hope I can raise him better than to sleep with a 13 year old.




You better do more than hope!  You best find an expert to teach him how to identify a manipulative underage female, if he comes across one, or tell him to do like I mentioned earlier, have a cop run her license to see if she's who she says she is!  The issue is that the boy had no clue the girl was 13!!  That is exactly what your son might encounter.  If you think otherwise, I'd say you are living in a bubble.  I have a son as well and I have learned a valuable lesson from this situation.



I'm glad to hear that your mind is open to the dangers to your children and might I add, to everyone's children.

You might want to see the "Educate All Youth" brochure at
http://cfciowa.org/index.php?option=com_docman&task=cat_view&gid=40&Itemid=57

You can print them out
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: TeeDub on November 17, 2008, 10:14:31 AM


http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2007/jul/11/iran.roberttait
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 17, 2008, 12:21:23 PM
http://www.hrw.org/en/node/73257
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: patric on November 17, 2008, 12:56:07 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

"Going potty" in a back ally is a misdemeanor crime at both the state level and local level:

Tulsa ordinance Title 27 Section 500
State Statute Title 21 Chapter 2 Section 22

neither of which are on the list of crimes required to register as a sex offender.

In Tulsa, you are normally issued a citation with a mandatory court date, which usually results in a fine.



Apparently the high number of people currently on the sex offender registry for public urination were also charged with indecent exposure, due to the mechanics involved in urinating...
...and indecent exposure requires you register.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Wilbur on November 17, 2008, 04:33:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by patric

quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

"Going potty" in a back ally is a misdemeanor crime at both the state level and local level:

Tulsa ordinance Title 27 Section 500
State Statute Title 21 Chapter 2 Section 22

neither of which are on the list of crimes required to register as a sex offender.

In Tulsa, you are normally issued a citation with a mandatory court date, which usually results in a fine.



Apparently the high number of people currently on the sex offender registry for public urination were also charged with indecent exposure, due to the mechanics involved in urinating...
...and indecent exposure requires you register.


Indecent exposure and outraging public decency are two totally different crimes.

"Going potty in the ally" is outraging public decency, which is not a sex offender registration offense.

Purposely exposing yourself (the guy in the trench coat) at the mall (or where ever) will get you indecent exposure, which is a sex offender registry crime.

Guys on the sex offender registration for indecent exposure were 'flying the flag' so to speak.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: Hoss on November 17, 2008, 04:50:37 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

quote:
Originally posted by patric

quote:
Originally posted by Wilbur

"Going potty" in a back ally is a misdemeanor crime at both the state level and local level:

Tulsa ordinance Title 27 Section 500
State Statute Title 21 Chapter 2 Section 22

neither of which are on the list of crimes required to register as a sex offender.

In Tulsa, you are normally issued a citation with a mandatory court date, which usually results in a fine.



Apparently the high number of people currently on the sex offender registry for public urination were also charged with indecent exposure, due to the mechanics involved in urinating...
...and indecent exposure requires you register.


Indecent exposure and outraging public decency are two totally different crimes.

"Going potty in the ally" is outraging public decency, which is not a sex offender registration offense.

Purposely exposing yourself (the guy in the trench coat) at the mall (or where ever) will get you indecent exposure, which is a sex offender registry crime.

Guys on the sex offender registration for indecent exposure were 'flying the flag' so to speak.



Maybe not, but I have a friend who essentiall 'went potty' when he was younger, and was charged AND convicted with both crimes, hence he had to register.  They essentially said when they walked upon him and asked what he was doing, it startled him so he turned around, evidently getting the indecent exposure charge.

That's pretty thin if you ask me.
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: patric on November 17, 2008, 10:50:22 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Hoss

Maybe not, but I have a friend who essentiall 'went potty' when he was younger, and was charged AND convicted with both crimes, hence he had to register.  They essentially said when they walked upon him and asked what he was doing, it startled him so he turned around, evidently getting the indecent exposure charge.

That's pretty thin if you ask me.



That's consistent with every case I have ever read or heard about.  The DA automatically charges taboo tinklers with the much heftier sex crimes charge.

It is a political position, anyway.
(the DA, not the peeing)
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on November 18, 2008, 07:09:35 PM
Mike NiFong is alive and well in every county, state and federal courthouse in the country. Especially in the legislature.  

They write punitive laws in the name of regulatory which endanger the very ones they profess to help.

Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: patric on November 25, 2008, 08:19:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MSLGWCEO

It's my understanding that Fox here in Tulsa is going to do a follow up on this story called "Age of Consent" sometime towards the end of the month.


It's supposed to be on FOX23 tonight (Tuesday) at 9pm (or tomorrow at 3am if you are an insomniac).

(edit)
It's also on the website (//%22http://www.fox23.com/%22) (but the big animated ad right next to it is somewhat distracting).
Title: Teen Feels Snared In Sex Offender Law - Ricky
Post by: MSLGWCEO on December 01, 2008, 06:18:10 AM
The video is on my Home page for those who haven't seen it.