Forums in general are dying. No one goes to individual sites anymore - they just check social media. Still, OKCTalk shows how it can be done. It takes a lot of effort though. It seems TulsaNow has been kind of just floating adrift for years now. The original crew that spurred this place to life are presumably long gone.
I'm still active in a forum that is very active but it is a specific forum for Mazda Miatas and it has been since the 90's. It's moderated quite fairly and has a large number of members and a good variety of topics.
I've been here for some time although I did have a blow up moment where I just got bent. I look in frequently since Tulsa is my birthplace and I still have ties to family and friends. My best friend who lives here in Phoenix I met in 1982 in Tulsa and we both tend to follow things there, he moved from the area in 1987 and I moved in 1998.
As for the rest of social media, I steer clear of most all of it, I read multiple news sites, but I'm not on X, Instagram, TikTok, Truth Social, or any of the others, just too much garbage. I haven't been on Facebook in two years, just some events left a bad taste.